Building in Public vs Building in Silence
Utkarsh Kaushik
August 16, 2024 · 6 min read
There is a cult like belief in the startup world that you must 'build in public.' You must share your revenue, your failures, your lunch. For the extroverted, 'main character' founder, this can work. It builds an audience.
But for the rest of us, the thoughtful, introverted experts, it feels like a nightmare. It is performative. It is loud. It feels like you have to trade your soul for clicks.
This leaves you with a false choice, become a full time content creator who also runs a business, or remain invisible.
The good news? This is a lie. The opposite of building in public is not building in secret. It is building in silence.
It is a strategy focused on substance over spectacle, on trust over trends. It is about building marketing systems, not a social media addiction.
The Power of Quiet Marketing
Loud marketing chases attention. Quiet marketing earns trust.
A quiet marketing system is an asset that attracts and qualifies your ideal clients without you having to post a selfie. The best one is what I call the Trust Funnel. It is not as sexy as a viral video, but unlike a viral video, it actually works for more than 48 hours.
It has three parts:
1. The Signal: A single, deeply valuable piece of long form content. An article, a guide, a video. Not a fleeting tweet. Something that genuinely solves a real problem for your ideal client. It is a beacon, not a bullhorn.
2. The Path: A clear, low friction next step. Not a jarring 'BUY NOW' button, but a gentle invitation to get more value, usually by signing up for an email course or a webinar. This moves the conversation to a private, intimate space, the inbox.
3. The Conversation: This is where the sale happens. Not on a high pressure call, but through a thoughtful, automated email sequence that builds the case for your offer. By the time they do talk to you, they are already sold.
This system works while you do your actual work. It does not require daily performance.
Your Integrity Is Your Brand
This approach works because it aligns with your natural strengths. Your competitive advantage is not charisma, it is depth. Your marketing should reflect that.
You win by creating one piece of content so valuable that the right people find it and share it. You win by respecting your audience's intelligence, not by trying to hack their attention with cheap tricks.
This is not just a different tactic, it is a different philosophy. It builds a level of trust that loud, trend chasing marketing can never replicate.
Clarity is Louder Than Noise
You do not need to be louder. You need to be clearer. You do not need a massive audience. You need a small, engaged audience of the right people.
If you are tired of the pressure to be someone you are not, it is time to build a business that is a true reflection of you. It starts by getting clear on what you stand for. Our free audit can help you find that clarity.